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The Lovely Bones
MPAA Rating/ PG-13
Nate's Rating/PG to PG-13
The Lovely Bones is the story of a young girl who is murdered by one of her neighbors and then ends up somewhere in the "in between". She isn't totally in heaven because she refuses to let go of her own life. She also isn't exactly living either. The movie has a gazebo represent the bridge she used between the afterlife and the living situations going on around her.
During the course of the movie, her family struggles to cope with her death as time marches on and relationships move in different directions. The movie is a roller coaster ride of emotions. Although the movie revolves around something depressing and disturbing as a young girls murder, it is more about life and relationships, and coping.
I had not heard of the book before seeing the movie. After reading the synopsis of the book, there are parts that I was glad was left out of the movie. I am not sure it would have played well with the darkly uplifting sentiments being portrayed in the face of this tragedy.
Many aspects of the movie are hard to put into words. I would recommend the movie, but with caution. Although not overtly violent or full of cuss words, it is a move that deals with adult themes. Think twice before letting your children watch it.
3 out of 5 nateys
As many of you know, I am passionate about Boise State football. And when somebody says something about my team, it is very hard for me to not correct them. So just the other day, I happened to tweet something that garnished a response from somebody in Ohio of all places. I really don't even know what the fellow tweeter was responding to. But he was quite rude in his response and made sure to hashtag a "dumba@@" in his tweet. I of course could not let this go. I responded and told him (or her) that I was glad that they had found a creative outlet to release their childish character and that no on really cared what they thought. The of course responded calling me a fat f@#$ and that it was unfortunate that I was so ugly. The following is the actual text....
@knatradio listen fat f@@@, if you don't like what i say don't follow me. people as worthless as you shouldn't breathe the same air as me.
Its funny how geeks like you will sit behind a computer and blog, tweet and play
WoW, but when someone steps in your face you cower like the worthless excuse for
a man you are. People like you are worthless to the world, you will sit and
tweet but never actually do anything about it. This is probably the story of
your life. You will forever work for someone else and take orders daily. I deal
with spineless people like you all the time. Sit behind your computer and rot
like the hermit that you are. People like you blog because you don't fit in with
society, you are a black sheep. You will forever be looked at like a freak, or
creature, and that makes you feel uncomfortable in your own skin; which you
should be. when you were created something went wrong, you're not like normal
people, you're creation and existence on earth was a mistake, you serve no
purpose, you are an outcast. You can reply to this email or just accept the fact
that you know I am correct and the truth hurts.
Now, after reading this letter, of course my first reaction was to write him back and say a bunch of nasty things. But the more I have thought about it, I am not going to carry on with this any longer. It is a very interesting time we live in that we can have wars with people we don't even know. I have come to believe we are living in a culture that is becoming more and more insensitive to others. We don't even have to see people face to face anymore. And we find it much easier to say things to one another we would never dream of saying to that person face to face.
As for me, I have been very diligent to post things on facebook that are quite neutral. And I have limited my posts on things that I don't agree with. I need to do the same thing on twitter. In fact, I am not really sure twitter is such a good thing. We have reduced what we are doing and thinking to 140 characters. How meaningful can that be? I think I may call a friend up and go have a cup of coffee and share some real quality time them.
What about you? What do you think of this new social culture we live in? Do you use facebook? Twitter? Are the good for our culture? What do you do to keep relationships going with people in your lives?
As many of you know, I have been trying to finish my degree. It has been a long road to earn my first degree, and I am not happy with what I have done. I started college in 1992. Since then I have attended 4 different school 5 different times. I have changed my major 5 different times. This is definitely not a formula for success.
This time around I am trying to get an IT degree with a Network Administration. I have been doing pretty well over the past two years with a scheduled graduation date of November of next year. At the beginning of this year, I started studying for the Configuring Windows 7 exam. I have taken the test 4 times with negative results. Yesterday, I took it for the 5th time...and failed.
This last score leaves me in kind of a bind. Microsoft's policy is to only let a person take the test 5 times within a 12 month time frame. So, I won't be able to take the test again until November 2011 (the month I was supposed to graduate). And, since the class was worth 6 credits (half of my class load) I did not pass enough credits for this term. This places me on an academic probation for the next term. I should not affect my financial aid, but it is very discouraging.
My IT mentor is going to try to get me into a Vista class so I can take a test soon. This will keep me from having to wait 12 months to take the test again. But it is still frustrating. It's days like this that make me think I am an idiot and should just give up.
But I have given up too many times in my life and I am not about to give up on school for a 6th time. It may be frustrating and a little humiliating that I have been unable to pass this test. But, for now, my determination outweighs my frustration.
In 2011, I plan on being a graduate of Western Governor's University and earning my first Bachelor's Degree. It is going to be hard (it has already been hard) but I will not let that deter me from reaching this goal. I am tired of giving up. I am tired of other people dictating what I can and can't do. I will be an IT professional.
Thanks for reading....and GO BOISE STATE!
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